Parshas Toldos (5766)

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Parshas Toldos (5766)
By Mordechai Dolinsky

This is the parsha of Yitzchok Avinu, the pillar of avoda, which in our generation is manifested in tefila.  One of the main aspects of prayer is obsolete today which means we are missing one of the three pillars.  Tefila is not confined to the three assigned prayers of shachris, mincha and maariv but a 24 hour access to Hashem; at any time we perceive a personal need or are aware of the needs of others, we could and must pray to Hashem.  This mentality to pray to Hashem whenever the need arises is what we are lacking today and was always very much the way of life and mentality of Clal Yisroel.  This was the main manifestation of tefila.  These prayers should be expressed in our personal words and language including the “Shem”.

Have a wonderful Shabbos and good Chodesh.

Parshas Chayei Sara (5766)

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Parshas Chayei Sara (5766)
By Mordechai Dolinsky

The small “chaf” expressing Avraham’s limited grief at Sara’s eulogy was due to the fact that she lived a long, full life.  What would be objectionable if Avraham had an over expression of grief over the passing of his lifelong marriage partner?  We see that the issue of inappropriate abundance of grief is a matter which must be controlled considering that we are the recipients of marvelous, constant blessings from Hashem.

Have a wonderful Shabbos.

Parshas Vayeira (5766)

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Parshas Vayeira (5766)
By Mordechai Dolinsky

Rashi quotes the Chazal that the malachim inconvenienced Avraham Avinu to come out and invite them since he didn’t know that they were aware of the fact that he yearned for guests despite his illness.  The lesson is that the true fulfillment of “bain adam L’chaveiro” is deep consideration and delving into the true circumstance of the one we want to help.

Parshas Bereishis (5766)

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Parshas Bereishis (5766)
by Mordechai Dolinsky

Rashi opens the awesome gates to his perush on the Chumash with the Medrash of R’ Yitzchok which is of primary importance and significance.  It is reasonably complex, deep and full of difficulties.  A possible enlightenment would be that the benefit of starting the Chumash with the first mitzvah would have been a statement from Hashem that He runs the world within the parameters of the ordinances of the Torah; a very basic issue.  Hashem conducts the world and “confines Himself” to the laws of the Torah.  However, the nations would complain—how do You explain Klal Yisoel’s conquering and seizing of the lands of the 7 nations?  Irrelevant of how the nations obtained it, presently the land was in their hands.   Taking it by force is contrary to Your Torah guidelines.

Torah, yes, but above all the priority of My conducting the universe is that I am the Creator and the Giver of all. This is the message of opening the Chumash with the Creation.  Bnei Yisroel, stealing? Where and how did you gain ownership in the first place, if not from Me?  I run the world first and foremost with this principle.

Parshas Vayaishev (5765)

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Parshas Vayaishev (5765)
by Mordechai Dolinsky

Our Parsha is the point of the beginning of the great journey of Clal Yisroel exploding into a massive nation and eventually to receive the Torah and enter Eretz Yisroel.  It is actually painfully difficult to comprehend how Yaakov Avinu could have a favorite; how could he show favoritism openly, why did Yosef share his dreams?  The brothers could have given all this enough thought and realize that Yosef perhaps was special and could have possibly avoided the aggravating consequence that followed.

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Parshas Bereishis (5765)

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Parshas Bereishis (5765)
by Mordechai Dolinsky

As we again start the Chumash with Parshas Bereishis, it is in a way, a renewal of life, as if we are witnessing the very creation itself.  It is indeed inspiring, uplifting and surely injects us with optimism.  The splendid joy of all this is abruptly broken by the sin of Adam and Chava.  In our minds we think “can’t we have just one parsha, pure white, holy and clean; just one parsha!”.  This theme consistently follows in the rest of the Chumash; a chronicle of the constant falling of man.  Just to mention a few: Kayin, the ten generations from Adam to Noach, culminated by the great flood, the fall of the Chom, Lot, Yishmael, Esav, the selling of Yosef by the Shvatim,  From this point of view of a consistent theme throughout the Chumash it is appropo to have a fall right from the beginning.

There was no human who had the level of realization of the presence of Hashem in the world more than Adam HaRishon.  If Adam failed to have self-control in his obedience to Hashem how can anyone else be expected to have it?  The same query applies to all the great spiritual giants in the Tanach that failed in their free-will opportunities.

The redeeming side of all of this is that by relating these incidents, openly and candidly revealing the weaknesses, the slips and falls, the Chumash is enlightening us about a basic, vital and crucial principle and fact regarding the makeup of mankind and reveals the greatest truth of the constitution of mankind.

Our makeup is such that there are principles we believe in absolutely, there are concrete goals we have, great spiritual aspirations or even goals of materialistic nature for which we have our own pure interest and enjoyment in mind, or certain idealistic principles that make up our hardcore values.  All these and more you would expect the person to be loyal to, yet the opposite is true; the human must have constant reminders.  It is absolutely necessary to be persistently reminded of these ideals and principles.   They must be continuously “pumped” into our conscious awareness.  The Vilna Gaon testified about himself that any single day he was lax in inspiring himself to the importance of Torah he observed a definite shortcoming in his accomplishment.

This is not due to a specific weakness of a specific individual but the state of reality of the whole human race.  One moment he is on the highest level and the next it is all gone.  He is not a hypocrite or inconsistent, just an uncharged soul.  All this is imperative to understand the giants of Tanach, all other human beings, and ourselves.  It enlightens us to the necessity to always be inspired.

Vayechi – Making Tools to Enrich our Relationships (5760)

Vayechi—Making Tools to Enrich our Relationships  (5760)
By Mordechai Dolinsky

Yaakov’s blessing to Yehuda has special significance.  Yehuda is royalty-leadership-Torah and Moshiach.  Yehuda is also so special that his name became the name of our nation.  All of Klal Yisroel are “Yehudim”.

Five times there are references in the blessing that Yaakov gave to Yehuda involving wine.  “He ties his he-donkey to the vine”
“To the branch (of the vine) his she-donkey’s foal”
“ He launders his garment in wine”
“ And his robe in the blood of grapes”.
“ Red-eyed from wine and white-toothed from milk”

When Noach came out of the Ark his first preoccupation was the planting of a vineyard.  We must understand why this was such an important priority to Noach.

Do you ever experience the feeling of negativity towards someone and not being able to or wanting to forgive him for the cause of the friction?  Then, when meeting him after having consumed some wine you are overcome with the urge to forgive and forget and let bygones be bygones.  All the rational reasons for your resentment remain yet you have this feeling of warmth and perhaps compassion.  You might find that you are addressing yourself: “One moment, hold on here, let’s no lose ourselves, this absolutely makes no sense, why should I forgive him.  Let’s face it, it’s only a little alcohol that put me in to a good mood.   It’s not rational, logical or sensible.  The issue is whether to allow yourself to be swayed by harnessing the force of wine.

Right before Noach’s  planting the Chumash relates: “Hashem smelled the pleasing aroma (of Noach’s sacrifice) and said in His heart I will not continue to curse again the ground because of man etc”.  This is as if to say that HaShem allowed himself to be swayed by the good smell of the sacrifice.

Chazal tell us that in the time of the Dor Haflaga they revolted against HaShem yet they weren’t destroyed because of the high quality and level of the human relationships that existed between them.  This was lacking in the generation of Noach that resulted in and caused the destruction of the world by the flood.

Wine is a catalystic agent that brings good feelings and good will and a person should allow it to happen.  Harness the power of the wine.

Yehuda—Torah—royalty—leadership and Moshiach: Yehuda the “Yid”, received the blessing of the grapes.  “U’Liven Shinayim MayChalav”—more nourishing than a glass of milk is the joy of the hearty smile.

Parshas Vayigash: Sensitivity (5760)

Parshas Vayigash: Sensitivity 5760

Something that has always been a great puzzle, is what was the criterion for Yosef deciding the crucial point of when it was time to stop pulling the strings and tightening the screws on his brothers, which he was obviously doing for a rational, definite purpose.

When the Tribes first came to Egypt, and Yosef confronted them, they attributed their plight to the wrong they had afflicted upon him.  It wasn’t the basic decision to harm Yosef that they regretted.  It was only that they hadn’t listened to his pleading.  (Incidentally, the Chumash doesn’t mention that Yosef pleaded to his brothers).

In other words, they still felt completely justified, confident and absolutely convinced of the righteousness of their actions.  Yet, they felt that this terrible, traumatic experience they were going through was a result of what they did to Yosef. Not because it was wrong—they felt they were doing something that was 100% right—yet that were having a severe punishment for doing it.  They weren’t sensitive to the heartbreaking cries of Yosef—some lesson!!!  You have an absolute truth, infallible truth, and infinite truth of truths and nevertheless forget the truth, forget the truth.  Open up your heart and listen to the pleas, open up your heart and listen to the cries, SENSITIVITY.

There is a Chazal in the Medrash Rabba I saw which I never heard quoted.  Klal Yisroel, with the Egyptians chasing them from one side, and the Yam Suf on the other side, chose to jump in to the Yam.  The conventional concept is  Emuna and Bitachon, the faith and the confidence motivated Klal Yisroel to leap into the Yam.  The opinion of the Chazal in this particular Medrash is that Klal Yisroel and Moshe decided to return to Egypt.  Emuna and Bitachon did not justify jumping into the Yam.  But then they said how can we do this to the women and children—how can we disappoint their anticipation of freedom, of leaving slavery.  How can we cause them such anguish?  Idealism, the truth, says—return—don’t jump in.  It is wrong and reckless but how can we break the hearts of the women and children?  …………….

“Vilo Yachol Yosef Lahisapek”—Yosef was bursting with emotion.  Yosef’s dealings with his brothers were obviously for a definite purpose but his sensitivity told him that this was the time to reveal himself.

The essence of the Will of HaShem is having sensitivity to one’s fellow man.

Parshas Noach (5765)

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Parshas Noach (5765)
by Mordechai Dolinsky

One can’t help but be awestricken by the great miracle of the salvation of mankind and the whole spectrum of all life on earth through the auspices of Noach’s ark.  This phenomenon is so striking that it is not possible to imagine the multiple creatures from the mammoth elephants to the smallest crawlers and creepers, to say nothing of the flying kingdom.  Hundreds, perhaps thousands of species comfortably perched  and positioned for their crucial, purposeful life preserving, world perpetuating journey, or shall we say ‘stay afloat’.

There is, however, an aspect of the miracle that seems to be infinitely greater and shocking.  This miracle is commonly known to all, however its true appreciation is not delved into, nor the extent of its phenomenal ramifications.  It is the issue of the complete representation of all life on earth coming forth to the ark.  First and foremost, how were the multitudes informed that they should “head” for the taiva?  How did they know its location?  How did the thousands know how to reach the location from every point on the earth?  For many species this meant traveling thousands of miles.  Giving this proper contemplation one would find this unimaginable.  Granted that all living things should be confined to the vessel Noach constructed is a clear demonstration of Divine rule and control, but for a worm to get a message in Mexico or a bull seal in the Arctic, or a rhinoceros in the Amazon, to work its way to the ark is something inconceivable.

The ‘nissim’ are supposed to have a profound effect on our emuna and create a greater closeness and awareness of Hashem; what sort of effect should this miracle have?  The lack of insight to this great miracle brings us to realize that often we are the witness to outstanding miracles and are complete numb to them or their true depth. A contemporary example is the Gulf War; after wiping out thousands in Iran with their missiles, the Iraqis launched 39 attacks on us and all were major failures.

As we proclaim daily in Shmone Esrei—”Al Nisecha Shebichol Yom….”  We express utmost gratitude to Hashem for the miracles that are with us daily and the wonders and the goodness He bestows on us constantly.

Parshas Vayechi (5765)

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Parshas Vayechi (5765)
by Mordechai Dolinsky

The name Vayechi seems most inappropriate for a parsha that relates the passing of Yaakov Avinu.  Chazal tell us that tzaddikim in general even after passing away, continue to live on.  In regard to Yaakov specifically we are told that he indeed continues to exist (perhaps in some other form of life).

This phenomenon has been confirmed all through the generations by the sight of our great ones after they passed on (who were seen for various circumstances) and they were reported to appear fresh and alive.  This is a great support for emuna, in our generation that needs so much strength and encouragement.

We should be zocheh to witness tchiyas hamaysim bikarov.

Have a wonderful Shabbos.