Parshas Yisro (5762)

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Parshas Yisro (5762)
By Mordechai Dolinsky

In our sedra we have Yisro’s suggestion for the major innovation of Moshe Rabeinu stepping down from his position as the sole source of psak in Clal Yisroel.  From the text itself (18:14) there is a connotation that the criticism of the existing system was connected with a time element.  However according to Rashi it was a lack of respect or courtesy to the honor of Clal Yisroel, Moshe sitting alone and all of the tzibur standing.  Further in the parsha there is a second lesson that Moshe unnecessarily went back to report to Hashem Clal Yisroel’s answer, to teach to proper behavior of a shaliach to always report back on his shlichus.

There is a special message and significance that the receiving of the Torah , which is in our parsha, greatly revolves around the area of “bain adam l’chavero”.

Have a wonderful Shabbos.

Parshas Beshalach (5762)

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Parshas Beshalach (5762)
by Mordechai Dolinsky

In our sedra we have the actual yetzias mitzrayim, the miraculous departure and greatly yearned for expulsion of Clal Yisrael from Egypt.  This was the climax and the ultimate of the ten plagues.  There is a twofold awesome benefit we are to derive and gain from this  Firstly, this was the greatest and most open demonstration of the kingdom, supremacy and dominion that Hashem extends over the universe.

Secondly, the strongest motivation for serving Hashem is the gratitude we have for this salvation.

If we are being treated with CPR we cannot speak words that aren’t appropo with the very breath of our savior to him.. How do we find ourselves going against Hashem, our savior?

I have never been able to uncover this secret.

Have a wonderful Shabbos.

Parshas Bo (5762)

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Parshas Bo (5762)
by Mordechai Dolinsky

The plagues the Egyptians were subject to in our sedra are an awesome unveiling of the Divine Kingdom and Hashem’s sovereignty in the universe.  Yet they failed to allow this to enter their hearts and to be a driving force to submit themselves to the kingdom of Hashem and correct their wicked ways.  This phenomenon is absolutely mind-boggling and its implications are awesome.

In the course of the trials and tests that we are subject to by the Divine plan, we feel that if we were worthy of a greater demonstration of Hashem’s dominion over the universe we would have more success in standing up to our tests.

If we don’t align ourselves with aspirations of truth seeking all Hashem’s demonstrations cannot help.

Hashem, open our hearts and minds.

Have a wonderful Shabbos.

PARSHAS KI SISA: A Lesson in Leadership (5760)

PARSHAS KI SISA: A Lesson in Leadership (5760)
By Mordechai Dolinsky

The Parsha of the “Aigel HaZahav”(The Golden Calf) has been a source of perpetual perplexity.  The “aveira” itself is so unclear and it is difficult to understand exactly what it was that they did.  It is especially hard to fathom that after having experienced the miracles of “Yetzias Mitzrayim”; at that point of history how they could have fallen as they did.  Klal Yisrael is standing at Har Sinai, experiencing the strongest spiritual connection.  They were on such a high plane of spiritualism that they couldn’t continue their physical existence—“Parcha Nishmasam”—their souls parted from their bodies.  How is it possible to sin at such a time?

A probable and palatable approach, which also fits in well with the text, is that the episode was a result of their quest for a Manhig (a leader).  The obvious difficulty with this is that when Klal Yisrael made their request to Aharon the way it was verbalized was: “Asai Lanu Elokim”—which has the implication that it was a form of “Deity” (Chas V’Shalom some form of Avoda Zara) that they were seeking.

For the key of the meaning of this we must know that it was clear to Klal Yisrael that a Manhig was more than a man of great stature with leadership qualities and even with Siyata Dishmaya (Divine assistance).  The Manhig was very closely integrated with Elokus.  If it could be said regarding manhigim in our relatively low generations, “HaShachina Midaberes Mitoch Garonam” –one can testify that the words that they utter are Divinely inspired—what could we say of our leaders of many generations ago?  HaShachina Mimalay Kol Gufam—their entirety was Divinely inspired.  The Mesilas Yesharim (Chap. 26) describes the heights our great ones can reach and says that they can become “KiMalach Hashem Mamash”—literally likened to angel of Hashem. Further in the chapter he explains that eventually one can reach such a degree of “oneness” with HaShem that he will be given the “key” of the ability to actually reinstate life to a deceased—since he has become “one” with the Giver of life.  Despite the fact that the power of giving life is not delegated to any human being, the Tzaddik, becoming one with Hashem is imbued with this power.  These words are awesome and if not for the high credibility of the source, we would not contemplate such a thought in our minds.  It is not so difficult now to understand why the terminology “Elokus” was mentioned in Klal Yisrael’s quest for a manhig.

There is a tremendously important lesson and source of inspiration to be gained from the event of the “Aigel”.  The episode came about from a hysteria and panic from the impression and thought of Klal Yisrael that they were without a manhig (even for a short while).  This gives us a perspective of the role that a manhig is supposed to play and his priority of importance in the structure of Am Yisrael in the life of the klal and the individual.  The Ribbono Shel Olam constructed Klal Yisrael with the anatomy as such that it is a vital necessity to have a manhig; with the same correlation that exists between man and his brain.  We cannot make a move or have direction without our manhigim.  We need them for every step, Ruchnius and Gashmius, physically and spiritually.  Rashi sums up both points.  Concerning Moshe Rabbeinu Rashi states (32:1): “Vihaya Moreh Lanu HaDerech Asher Naaleh Ba, Ata Tzrichim Anu LaElokus Asher Yelech Lifanenu”—Moshe Rabbeinu enlightened us concerning every step to take, and now we need some Divine source to replace him.  We see here the role of a manhig and his integration with Divinity.

Rav Shlomo Brevda Shlit”a described to me the scene of the leyava of the Chazon Ish ztz”l.  It was the picture of Klal Yisrael standing in stupor of bewilderment.  Ashkenazim and Sefardim, Chasidim and Litvaks, Talmidei Chachamim and laymen, public figures and private individuals, young and old, rich and poor, were questioning–what will be our next move?  Rabbanim were totally perplexed—how will we lead our Talmidim?  Farmers—who will guide and advise us, concerning our sheep and crops?  Doctors (even irreligious) and people seeking medical advice in life-threatening situations—should we operate or not?

The Yeshivas Mir, an army of the greatest Talmidei Chachamim, were saved from the holocaust through the direction of R’ Yechezkel Levenstein ztz”l, the Mashgiach, who led them step by step.  After the war there practically wasn’t any religious Institution in the world for males or females, Chasidim or Litvaks, that didn’t have on its staff a great illuminary from the Mirrer Yeshiva.  The last stage of their escape was through Shanghai.  Some brilliant talmidim quickly mastered the difficult Chinese language and kept up to date about the war situation through the local newspaper.  Based on this they advised R’ Yechezkel that it was imperative to change locations.  He said—we are staying put.  The place where the talmidim had suggested that they move to was bombed and destroyed shortly after.  Subsequently, the students claimed it was important to remain where they were located–to which R’ Yechezkel replied—we’re moving out of here.  Shortly afterward that location was completely devastated.

More recently, regarding the Gulf War, all the government military authorities claimed that the missiles would be of a chemical nature, and advised everyone to obtain and don gas masks.  R’ Chaim Kanievsky Shlit”a said—the only use you will have of the masks is Purim costumes.  All the missiles turned out to be conventional explosives.

Our Manhigim are our K E Y, they S E E, and they always S A W.

We must demand of ourselves an honest, clear appraisal of where we are standing regarding this vital issue.  HaShem sends us our manhigim according to the way we see it and feel the need.  May we always merit great Manhigim.

Parshas Bo – To Be Inspired (5760)

Parshas Bo (5760)
By Mordechai Dolinsky

The foundation of our relationship to HaShem and our commitment to fulfill His will is the gratitude we feel towards Him which is mainly based on Yetzias Mitzraim.   The Parshios of these weeks are the main source and light of His sovereignty over the universe and the world.  These Parshios are therefore basic for they are the foundation of our service.

During these weeks there is a special Siyata DiShmaya, Divine help, in doing Teshuva.  The usual explanation for this is seen in a kabalistic light, having to do with high spiritual concepts.  As an additional explanation, since there is a strong element of rejuvenation, reawakening and reestablishment in our belief and motivation to serve HaShem, the period brings with it enthusiasm for repentance.  Following this line of thought one should invest time and effort to visualize as clearly as possible to create and to relive the experience that Klal Yisroel underwent.

An aspect of the miracles of the plagues puzzled me.  The purpose of the miracles was to reveal and demonstrate that “I am the King and the Creator”.  This was shown and seen by the control of the different facets of powers of the world and of all the laws of the universe.  HaShem showed who was the ‘boss’.  Each of the commandments Moshe was given to initiate the plague was accompanied by instructions of preliminary prerequisites that had to be done.  These instructions included the use of the “staff” and orders of what to do with it.      Dam (blood) [7:19] “Take your staff and stretch out your hand over the waters of Egypt.  Over the rivers, canals, ponds and all the gatherings of water”.
Kinim (lice)[8:12]  “Stretch your staff and strike the dust of the land”.
Shechin (boils) [9:8]  “Take your cupped handsful of furnace soot and throw it Heavenward”; not to mention the elaborate instructions of the Plague of the First-Born.  The impression is that these miracles could only be accomplished by first following the instructions– “first read the manual”.  The whole idea of having preliminary requirements seems to be diametrically opposed to the whole point of the plague, which is that HaShem has absolute and complete control.

One possible explanation may be as follows. First as an introduction with the understanding that the only way this world can exist is with the presence of Hashem, at least partially, hidden. If it were revealed in its totality the world simply could not be.  Even when HaShem reveals Himself, there always are and must be blocks, curtains and limitations.

The simple understanding of the preliminary acts Hashem instructed in order for the plagues to take place is that they were an integral part of the actual miracle of the plague. However we might venture to present a unique way of looking at this. The “manual book of instructions” was not really to make the miracles and to reveal the glory of Hashem, but rather to clothe, minimize and to hide His true honor and revelation.

An important and practical lesson is that our infinite search and quest for HaShem is a fulfillment of the highest purpose of our existence.  This is reflected in what we say each morning in our prayers: “Bakshu Panav Tamid”—seek His presence always.   He constantly shows His Presence to the world, to His nation, and to each individual.  This can be seen by observing the Hashgacha Pratis of His manipulation of the events of the world, our nation and private lives.  We must, however, see through the curtains that obscure, and the smog that blocks our vision as explained above regarding the staff.  These are put there for us to dispel, and then we can bask in His presence and glory.  “Ki Vo Yismach Libaynu”—with Him our hearts shall rejoice.

Parshas Beshalach: The Shirav (5760)

Parshas Beshalach: The Shirav (5760)
By: Mordechai Dolinsky

The Shiras HaYam in our Sedra are the words that were emitted from the mouth of Moshe Rabbenu and Klal Yisroel after having experienced the greatest demonstration and revelation of Hashem.  This is exactly what should be and was said to express the ultimate of praise, appreciation and gratitude for the ultimate from Hashem.  Every word and sequence of words expresses exactly in the best way the thoughts they convey.

The Shira begins relating that Moshe and Klal Yisroel all exclaimed together these words.  This includes millions of people, all expressing simultaneously the Shira.  The conventional understanding of this is that it was a miracle, some type of supernatural prophecy that was placed in their mouths.  This insight is that these words were said since they were the exact expression of the praise.

How do we see in these words such praise, such enthusiasm and inspiration?  The Medrash 26:1 brings the Chazal that the throne which is the kingdom of Hashem was not complete until the reciting of the Shira.  Oh, to understand  these seemingly simple stanzas…

One observation I would like to share—there are two main themes throughout the Shira—the highness and greatness of HaShem and His helping us—down to the smallest details.  This is perhaps one of the high points of greatness of how HaShem relates to the world.  It is also something that is difficult for us to deal with.  HaShem being so high, yet being so concerned and helpful down to the smallest detail.

Saying the Shira is also a ‘segula’ in a time of danger.  We should all be worthy to again say Shira for the great redemption.

Parshas Pikudei:A Happiness Workshop (5760)

Parshas Pikudei:A Happiness Workshop (5760)
By Mordechai Dolinsky

During this week we have entered the “Mi Shenichnas Adar Marbim B’Simcha” time zone. This does not seem to fit well with the Parsha of Pidukei that has the taste of orders and regimentation.

“Marbim B’Simcha”, happiness, is something which is considered a state that one is in as a result of various circumstances that cause joy. Something that happens, an event, an experience, a thought, has affected us in a way that brings us the feeling of joy. I call it the weather report syndrome—our mood swings are compared to being subjected to weather conditions; cloudy, rainy, snowy and beautifully sunny and bright. There is a great truth, however, which is hidden from most of us. It is of utmost importance and has an extreme effect on almost every phase and situation of our lives. We should inscribe this into the deep recesses of our hearts and ingrain it into our minds. Our moods and disposition are aspects of our mental framework, which is in our hands and control. To be happy and joyous is up to us, open to our discretion and is at our disposal. And so the rigid framework of Parshas Pikudei is very much in place and in the right time frame.

To be B’Simcha is a state, WE have to create,
It is a mentality that is up to us to generate,
So do it now, there is nothing to negotiate,
Take care of it yourself, there is nobody to whom to delegate,
It is an awesome shame for anyone to wait,
To procrastinate a second is already too late,
So be B’Simcha, there is really nothing so great.

The question arises, are we happy in Adar for the good things that happened or good things will happen if we can make ourselves happy? Probably both are true. There is a list of wonderful consequences that will result in our being B’Simcha in Adar, ranging from deep spiritual accomplishments that have their roots in the ‘Kaballah’ to logical, understandable factors. Among the practical benefits is that it serves as a “training program” or “refresher course” to enable us to maintain a good mindset of Simcha all year round. Another important way we can benefit is whenever there are special opportunities for spiritual growth these opportunities are greatly magnified and enhanced if they are accompanied by ‘simcha’. We have a tradition that the month of Adar is rich in its potential to reach great spiritual heights. This puts a new perspective on the importance of ‘simcha’ in Adar. In this light the Medrash in this week’s Parsha (52:5) brings a Chazal that says: Outside of Yerushalayim there was a special place designated for business transactions. In Yerushalayim itself it was forbidden because the potential aggravation and hard feelings that often accompany business dealings are not fit for the simcha one should have in Yerushalayim. Since Yerushalayim is the ultimate place of spiritual growth we must always elevate our level of simcha there. Likewise, in the same light, the Gemara relates that Rava always started his discourse with some humor. This simcha was a prerequisite for the intense depth that followed.

Everyone has his own simcha recipes and it is important to use them and I’ll share some of my own:
Early to rise—especially using the advice of Chazal (Mesechtas Brachos) to daven “kivasikin”.
Counting your blessings
“Toras HaShem Misamchei Lev”, an increase in Torah study.

“Mi ShenichNESS Adar Marbim B’Simcha”
Which Ness?
HappiNESS!!

Parshas Vayakhail – Shkalim: Our Need For Others (5760)

Parshas Vayakhail – Shkalim: Our Need For Others (5760)
By Mordechai Dolinsky

The Divine Providence has put Parshas Vayakail and Parshas Shkalim together and it certainly deserves some explanation. As for the Parsha of Shkalim there are many inspirational thoughts and insights. There is, however, one trend that is very obvious and outstanding.

The shkalim were used as a means of counting Klal Yisroel. Counting is gathering one lump sum and is obviously a unifying agent. The amount that had to be given was standard and constant for the rich and poor, again an obvious lesson in achdus, unity. The money was used to buy ‘korbanai tzibbur, public sacrifices; again we see a clear statement of the significance of ‘achdus’. The actual giving of the shkalim was done in the month of Adar, which through ‘Hashgacha Pratis” turned out to be at the time of Purim, making shkalim, too, related to Purim. Purim itself I very much related to ‘achdus’, the miracle came about through the ‘zchus’ of Klal Yisroel gathering together day and night in unified prayer. This is why the Megila is read night and day. The ‘achdus’ also is why Chazal instituted the Mitzva of Mishloach Manos. Again we have another connection of shkalim to ‘achdus’. Now the connection between Parshas Vayakhail and Parshas Shkalim becomes very obvious–as the name itself “Vayakhail” calls out ‘achdus’; “Vayakail Moshe es kol Adas Bnai Yisroel”.

What I would like to focus on is to try to shed some light on the meaning and significance of the fact that the performance of the Mitzvah was done with a ‘chatzi shekel’—a half. There has been a lot said and written on this point and I would like to present some of my own thoughts. The obvious significance of the denomination of a coin that is one half is that there is something missing, something lacking. It has so much meaning here, this payment which represents “me”—“here I am”—“count me”—is in the format of being incomplete. The Mitzvah of shkalim has two thoughts—‘achdus’ and the fact that we are lacking. Putting them together the message that emerges is that we are incomplete humans and must have ‘achdus’, unity, and be connected with one another. The idea of being one half and lacking is very important and carries with it one of the most basic concepts.

The first point that must be considered is that we were not created as self-contained, independent beings. Just to take the eating process as an example, before the consumption of the food you can’t think and after the potato you can. The thought and understanding came about from what amounts to a converted clump of black earth—the thought was in the “potato”. An interesting thought about thought. Just as with the food, our dependence is extended to other areas. We are created with a dependence on other humans for our true understanding, insight, and perspective. I don’t think this axiom can be better expressed, clearly, eloquently and shockingly than in the words of the Mesilas Yesharim (Chap. 23). I often wonder if these words of the Mesilas Yesharim are properly understood and the impact of his powerful message is appreciated. To quote: (THE FIVE CONSTANTS) A person’s highest priority and more than anything else in the world he should give proper thought and attention CONSTANTLY to be aware of the weakness and fragility of the human mental capabilities, that most of his conclusions are errors and absurdities. For CONSTANTLY one is more vulnerable to be wrong and mistaken than comprehending things properly, and seeing things in their right light. Therefore one should be CONSTANTLY concerned and worried about this grave danger, and yearn CONSTANTLY to be enlightened by everyone and CONSTANTLY be open for advice–to prevent him from falling into catastrophic consequences by his mistakes. Later on in the chapter the Mesilas Yesharim says:”A person’s highest priority and most beneficial ambition must be to yearn and search for genuine friends and acquaintances that will enlighten him and open up his eyes to the things that he is blind to. And with their true love for him will guide him and consequently will save him from falling. For what a person is blind to and not capable of seeing objectively, his fallacies, they, on the other hand will have the true insight, understand, and give him beneficial warning signals. This can be a tremendous protective benefit.”

This is our lesson of the half shekel—that we are one half, incomplete, and have the need for others. There is a leaning we all have to be independent and to feel that we are complete and self-contained. One can safely say that the Parsha of the shekel has given us a little “SHUKEL”. I hope that this lesson will be taken seriously and not with a “CHUCKLE”.

Parshas Va’eirah – Being Human (5760)

Parshas Va’eirah – Being Human (5760)
by Mordechai Dolinsky

In Perek 6:13 Rashi quotes the Chazal that explains the commandment was to act with respect to Pharoh. This concept was also reflected above in Perek 5:3 and further on in 11:8. The problem with this issue is quite obvious. Was Pharoh with all his wickedness deserving of a “royal” treatment?

To understand this properly there is an important principle here that is vital for Torah observance and for conducting oneself as a proper human being. Moshe was raised in the palace under the auspices of Pharoh and subjected to the epitome of Egyptian influence. Where did he get the insight, the mentality, the understanding and the strength to “go out” and concern himself with Bnai Yisroel and take up for any wrongdoing inflicted upon them (2:11) and objectively observe the atrocities. The Chazal tell us Moshe was such a loyal, true blue Egyptian that he was elevated to the position of being in charge of the royal household. For sure the concern of the benefit and welfare of the Egyptians was a priority to him. What was the source of the wellsprings, of the open-mindedness?

Every living species has its laws of behavior and guidelines of living patterns. Included in the list is “the human race”. There is a framework and structure of definite, positive, and beneficial behavior. A spider needs for its existence the knowledge of the construction of the web that is a marvel of engineering. It is born with this knowledge programmed into its brain. Likewise, we can find in the spectrum of species the vital, intricate knowledge that is essential for its life. Man was also created programmed with a knowledge that is essential and vital. It is not the intricacies of web-construction or beaver-damming or the marvels of bee-hiving but the true knowledge of correct human “bee-havior”. It also has to be nurtured, fortified and reinforced. It is well known that even the most basic instincts such as self-preservation can easily be deleted from the nervous system.

Until recently all of mankind lived by these rules, laws of decency, manners and respect. These are laws of existing and acting as a human being. When we read memorandums that even generals in war wrote to each other when their armies were on the battlefield, we see that these notes were written with the utmost of respect and reverence.

Moshe was brought up in the house of Pharoh. Maybe he didn’t get any training there concering which “hechsherim” to use, but a strong framework of the laws of proper behavior he did receive. He was well equipped to “go out” and have sensitivity to the suffering of the B’nai Yisroel.

These “laws” of acting like a decent human being, I believe, is what is meant by “Derech Eretz Kadma La’Torah”. The Torah was given for humans, and Derech Eretz instructs us how to accomplish this.

In the 1960’s, with the rise of the”hippie” movement, there was a great rebellion against conforming to the laws of proper human behavior. Many suffer today from unhappy marriages. I am sure one of the causes is the general breakdown in keeping these laws of acting human. How can there be any hope for people to live together harmoniously without this?

With all the wickedness of Pharoh the laws of decency demand ‘derech eretz’ to ‘malchus’. Hashem, give us the wisdom and strength to be human.

Parshas Tetzaveh: Speech Muscles (5760)

Parshas Tetzaveh: Speech Muscles (5760)
By Mordechai Dolinsky

The silence of the Azara is broken by the sound of bells from the hem of the Me’il (robe) of the Kohen Gadol. The Chazal tell us (Zevachim 88) that these bells were an atonement for Lashon HaRah. Sound for sound, let the sound of the bells atone for the sound of Lashon HaRah. This is very puzzling. Also baffling is the connection between the bells and the pomegranates which were likewise located on the hem of the Me’il.

I would like to offer a probable explanation, and to understand it properly one must draw from the depths of the very core of our Torah observance. For the fulfillment of any Mitzvah we must first be aware of the commandment. Secondly, we must be properly motivated. Both of these factors have many subdivisions. For example, the level of our belief in “Torah Min HaShamayim”, and the level of our “Yiras Shamayim”. There is a third factor of extreme importance that is very much overlooked and not understood or appreciated. This is the development of self-control, specifically pertaining to the parts of the body involved in the various Mitzvos. This comes about by self-imposed boundaries, setting limitations on our physical actions. This is a type of sophisticated control and of using our nervous system to develop habits in a positive way.

For ages our conscientious brethren developed the habit of rising from bed early, quickly, and with enthusiasm. Our spiritual giants developed the habit of doing everything with ‘zerizus’, enthusiastic speed. They trained their mouths to smile and trained their hands not to be lifted in anger. Conscientious ‘Yidden’ habitually kept their eyes within the 4 amos range. The famous tzaddik R’ Elya Lopian ztz’l in his later years was blind in one eye and his other eye was weak. Once, on his way to a doctor’s appointment, he was anxiously waiting for a bus, as he did not want to arrive late. He looked up the street to see if the bus was coming, and reprimanded on himself very strongly for giving in to his natural curiosity; looking up for no practical purpose.

If a person allows himself the liberty of talking without any discretion, even without verbalizing anything negative, he will be missing sufficient strength, the self-control muscles necessary when there is a test of indulging in Lashon Harah. There was no control on the bells of the Kohen Gadol that hung loosely on his Me’il. It was an involuntary, uncontrolled noise made as he walked about. This possibly is the significance of the atonement the bells bring for Lashon Harah. The uncontrolled sound atones for the uncontrolled sound. Now we can understand the connection of the bells to the pomegranates on the Me’il. Amazingly, the Gemara (Zevachim 88) specifies: “Rimonim Shelo Paschu Pihem”, pomegranates whose mouths were not yet opened (if they remain on the tree longer they open up as a mouth), which is exactly the point of the message of the bells. We can also see this important concept in what the Chazal explain the significance is of the two birds the Metzorah brings in his purification process. The birds are likewise an atonement for the sin of Lashon Harah and they remark: “Asa Maaseh Patit Yavi Korban Patit”—the act of his sin came about through uncontrolled, meaningless talk, and his atonement is through the sacrifice of birds that also chatter in a seemingly uncontrolled manner. And Rashi adds: “Kol Sha’ah”—constantly.

What a powerful lesson for today! If there is a slight lull in conversation people feel uncomfortable, they have a “just keep it going” mentality. The point is to develop speech muscles, self-control over our power of speech by refraining or at least limiting our indulgence in meaningless chatter that is without any positive purpose.